There are many behaviors or bad habits that people have that make them seem unattractive, annoying or someone that no one wants to be around with.
Below are harmful characteristics that make you become unattractive without being aware, and if you happen to realize that you embody any of them; Quit! You might find your circle of friends grow once you do.
1. You Focus on Outer Beauty, Ignoring What's Inside
True beauty comes from your heart, body, and soul. Your physical appearance isn't what should matter, but people with unattractive behaviors thinks that outer beauty is all that matters. Take a look in the mirror deep within yourself and you might see what lies beneath. Just because someone looks good, doesn't mean they are good. spoiled milk is still white!
2. You are Self Absorbed
Many people do this without realizing it. You focus solely on yourself, talk only about yourself and often don't care what others around you have to say. You think you are the only one who matters. No one wants to be a friend with someone who only cares about themselves.
3. You View Your Friends as Enemies
People who are seen as unattractive are often in fights with their friends. Instead of banning together and truly being able to care for others, you are always turning your back and stabbing them in theirs. your friends are not your enemies. They are your allies.
4. You are Rude
If you're the person that's frequently impolite, offensive, or embarrassing your friends with your rude comments in public; quit. You're not someone people want to be around. There are going to be times when you don't agree with someone, or see something you didn't want to see, there is no point making a scene.
5. You are Always Negative
Pessimism is not an attractive quality. If you are constantly putting things down, or seeing situations in a negative light, try and change you attitude. Nobody wants to engage themselves with someone who's constantly seeing the negative aspect in things rather than the positive views.
6.You are Unreliable, Yet Dependent Upon Others
Are you there when your friends call for help? Or you are always busy when someone needs you? If you're that person no one can count on you. Similarly if you are always calling for help from others, yet never offering yours when they need it, that's an unattractive quality that no in wants in a friend.
7. You are Always in Competition
Are you the person who has to be better than everyone else, see more, do more? If so you're an unattractive person. If you are always making the decisions, constantly needing to be in charge, or trying to control what others are doing, you are acting in an unattractive way.You should be more caring towards your friends and let them have their moment. Be proud of your friends and compliment them.
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