Hi lovelies, hope you guys had a lovely weekend? A lot of us have had issues in our past relationship, and some are still having; Some prove to be stubborn or assume things will get better even when things don't look like it, sure it is not easy to let go atimes, but common wake up and smell the coffee. Relationship/ marriage should be a thing of joy not pain. Break ups are not the end of the world, they only make you better& stronger and also for you to take precaution for your next . There are signs you see in your partner or spouse that you don't need a rocket sign to know what step to take next. You don't make the same mistake twice! The next time you repeat such, it's no longer a mistake but a choice. Everyone deserves to be happy.
In a relationship, never assume you can change your partners except he/she is willing and ready to change themselves. Never force things instead allow things flow accordingly. Most marriage or partnership ceremonies mention the word "Cherish". The best definition of the world "Cherished" is " Nurtured". Think of a plant which needs water, sunshine, and a bit of tender loving care. Just do that today and everyday. The plant or relationship will grow and flourish as you discover each other.
How can you tell that you are in a highly cherished relationship? Usually, the signs are pretty obvious.
1- You can trust each other:
If the two of you can trust each other, you are in a happy relationship. Trust is a fragile thing. Trust is actually essential in every relationship. If you always have to hide something from your partner, it's a warning sign. Open yourself up to your partner especially if you've been together for a short period of time, but you can't live together without trusting each other.
2- You don't wear a mask:
If you can be yourself when you spend time with your partner, it's one sign you are in a healthy relationship. Your partner loves you for who you are and accepts all your drawbacks without complaining about them. Both of you realize that no one is perfect and there's no need to pretend and wear masks when you spend time together. If your partner always remind you of your imperfections, it's not a healthy relationship, remember it.
3- You get a message everyday:
The messages don't have to be long, usually little gems to show you are loved and appreciated. They can be funny, notes left in weird places, jokes and coded messages. They have one thing in common, they show that you are treasured.
4- Your partner or spouse has no problem with your success:
Awards, promotions, brilliant performance reports, and success in all fields are always ok. Your partner does not feel threatened or lose self-esteem when you are winning streak. It is all part of your personal development and you should not feel stifled in a relationship.
5- You are up to-date on your partner's schedule:
You know what is happening at work and vice versa. You swap your worries, anxieties, and successes. These are always followed up with specific questions about how the day went. Its simple but effective.
6- You share precious moments together:
You both ensure that special occasions are celebrated and recorded. This also includes sharing everyday pleasurable moments when doing things together, such as eating out, going to the games, seeing a movie together etc. They will be valuable moments later on and will be visual reminders of a cherished relationship.
7- You are grateful and you say thank you:
Everyday, your partner shows you some appreciation simply for your presence. You can respond by being grateful and using words to show that the appreciation is mutual. Many couple broke apart because of pride. don't let pride ruin your happy relationship.
8- You are always given support:
You feel your partner is like a guardian angel who offers support, advice, and help for you to get through a difficult patch.
9- You have personal space:
Space is not just a physical room where you can be quiet and alone when you need to be. No relationship can thrive when a clinging partner threatens to suffocate you. You also feel that you have room to grow, develop your own projects, and hang out with your own friends. Your partner feels the same about his/her interest and you both ask how these are progressing.
10- You always make time to spend time together:
couples grow apart very often because they are too bound up with work and commitments. The lack of prime together becomes a negative force. Loneliness is often the first step in a break-up. workaholic tendencies need to be checked!
11- You never feel threatened, insulted, or inadequate.
When your partner is angry, you never feel you are under threat or that there is a risk for your safety. Angry moments melt like snow in the sun. There is no fallout afterwards. A positive indicator might be that 95% of time you spend together is calm, peaceful, and mutually fulfilling. You do not feel you have to act a part in a domestic play.
12- You feel perfectly at ease in the relationship:
With your partner, you feel you are a better person. You both are not troubled, it feels like you have known each other all years. You just want to spend the rest of your lives together because you feel your partner know you more.
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